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of at all costs. Let’s look into this matter more  of a caterpillar transforming into a butterfly, of   In my twenty
          deeply. When a child becomes sick with a fever,  striving to do something you have never done
          a number of processes are activated in his body,  before, is that you can fail and fall into the abyss.   plus years as
          processes that we can see and experience without  Not trying, however, is even worse. Our job as  a doctor,
          the use of special insight or fancy instruments.  parents and doctors is to help the child cross the   the most
          First, there is increased warmth, both locally (at  bridge of illness with our loving, caring, intelli-
          the site of the “infection,” such as the tonsils) and  gent guidance as we oversee the natural processes   important
          systemically. This systemic response is measured  at work in our children.           thing
          by the elevated temperature on the thermometer.                                      I have
          Second, there is pain, again both locally and  THE PARENTS’ ATTITUDE
          sometimes body aches that are felt everywhere.     In my thirty plus years as a doctor, the most   observed in
          Third, there is swelling. Finally, there is redness.  important thing I have observed in determining  determining

          The last two are mainly at the site of the infec-  the outcome of a child’s illness is the attitude   the outcome
          tion, but to a certain extent we see the child’s  of the parents. If the parents have a deep belief

          whole face becoming slightly more red and  that their child is strong and that the illness, if it   of a child’s
          even a bit swollen. Pathology textbooks iden-  doesn’t become too severe, will serve the child  illness is the
          tify these changes as the four cardinal signs of  in his future development, then their attitude of   attitude of
          inflammation.                             resolve and confidence will translate into an en-
              In Fourfold, I discuss the theory that we  vironment of peacefulness and effectiveness that   the parents.
          actually have four “bodies,” each of which  truly allows the child to rest and to comfortably
          participates in every inflammation and each of  go through the process. The child must know that
          which is activated when we are sick. The physical  the parents are watching for any indication that
          or earth body becomes red; the fluid or etheric  the illness is becoming too strong and requires
          body takes on more fluid, which we call swelling;  more help; the child must know that he can relax
          the emotional body or astral body experiences  and that everything will be okay.
          a heightened sense of feeling, which we call
          pain, and the warmth body or mental body gets  STAY WARM
          involved and raises our temperature. This acti-     First and foremost, a child with a fever must
          vation of the four bodies is particularly acute in  stay in bed or in a comfortable, relaxed place. To
          children because the whole process of being a  encourage elimination through the kidneys, he
          child involves growing into and reshaping our  should take warm liquids as often as possible. The
          bodies to “fit” our individual purpose in life.  child should be kept warm as the fever needs to
              Another way to put this is that when a child  do its job and be allowed to “burn out” the illness.
          encounters an impediment, say a foreign protein  The bowels should be kept open if need be, with
          or an organ that is not being formed quite right,  a gentle laxative or herbs that encourage bowel
          he goes into “remodeling mode.” The remodel-  movements.
          ing is done by tearing down the old, misshapen     A sick child can listen to stories read out loud,
          matter, taking it out to the dumpster, and then  but otherwise the only other appropriate activity
          rebuilding a more suitable house to inhabit. This  is rest. The less mental stimulation in the form of
          is exactly what is accomplished through illness.  computer games, movies, etc., the better. Illness
          Take measles: the temperature goes up to 104,  is a serious and energy-consuming task; there is
          the eyes water, the nose runs, the lungs cough up  no room for anything else in their lives at that
          mucus, the kidneys excrete extra broken-down  time, only rest and recovery. If parents followed
          proteins, the bowels are loose and the child aches  just this simple advice, nothing to bring down the
          all over. These symptoms herald the construction  fever, just warmth, calm resolve, careful obser-
          of a newer, healthier body, one that is more indi-  vation, lots of fluids, keeping the bowels open,
          vidualized to the dynamics of the child. This is  and rest, we would have far fewer problems with
          a profoundly healing and spiritual process, and  chronic disease than we have now.
          like everything of such gravity, it has its risks and
          dangers. The risk of a snake shedding its skin,

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